Maximum Gratitude, Minimal Stuff

Thank you, dear readers, for giving me so much appreciation and encouragement.  I've begun my 5th year of blogging, and I get more enjoyment from it each year!  Whether you've been with me from the beginning or arrived just now, I'm glad you're here. Thank you for sharing Maximum Gratitude with your family and friends, on social media, and with links from your own websites.  This website exists because of your support, and I'm grateful for all of it. To those of you who go the extra mile and purchase my books – you're my favorites .  You're who I think of most when I sit down to write. Lots of good news Subscribers have grown by 75% since last January, which makes me happy.  This is the 106th post I've written this year, and a dozen of those posts were featured on Joshua Becker's site No Sidebar.com , including How a Naked Table Benefits My Life Every Day .  I've also become a regular guest author on The Simplify Daily.com , and the huge financi...

In the days after Christmas, your house may be feeling a little stuffy and scruffy.  Pine needles fill the carpet, new toys and other gifts fill shelves and cupboards, and some of your holiday decorations strike you as messy rather than merry. Why not have a family scavenger hunt for things you can declutter?  Start the New Year lighter and have some fun too. How to play Did you realize that the gifts in the traditional song "The 12 Days of Christmas" add up to 78 ?  Now, some of those gifts are useful (especially if you're a farmer) – the pear tree, hens, geese, milk cows, and of course those five golden rings!  You'd have to feed and house all of the people (maids, lords, ladies).  And by the end it's a literal parade of pipers and drummers accompanying dancers and leapers.  What a celebration! To find room for all of your new gifts, here's the list of things to remove: 1     piece of furniture that simply gathers clutter and dust 2   ...

Why do you celebrate the holidays?  Is it because: you love the idea of fun and festivity with family and friends? you like to create an eye-catching table and a delicious feast for guests? you want to counteract cold, dark weather with lights and sparkle? you enjoy making, shopping for, giving, and receiving presents? you feel a connection to the natural world and the beauties of winter? you long for an atmosphere of kindness and goodwill? you're awed and humbled by God's care for and intervention in our world? you're inspired to worship Jesus because of his humility and sacrifice?  There are probably other reasons I haven't thought of. What's the point? The holidays are supposed to mean something .  They should be more than a date on the calendar, more than just another day spent in front of a screen, and more than a retailer's dream come true. Whatever way you celebrate, if it gets you outside of yourself and the things that usually occupy your time and your ...

Do you find yourself rushing around even more than usual at this time of year?  You've got presents to buy, cookies to bake, parties to plan, and events to attend.  There are cards to mail, decorations to display, all the tasks on your regular to-do list, and kids to soothe and entertain.  Plus traffic! It doesn't sound like peace on earth. Press pause. I loved the Christmas season as a child, with so much to anticipate and enjoy, but that's because I didn't have to "produce" the holiday for anyone.  As an adult, I find that every year it flies by more quickly, and before I've really savored it, it's over.  What a letdown. You're probably on the holiday production team, so be sure to take time to pause . Pause before you say yes to one more thing. Pause before you add anything else to your shopping cart. Pause before getting upset when something upsets your plans. Pause for your own peace of mind. When you feel the holiday momentum sweeping you alo...

Christmas can be a season of connection, kindness, and simplicity.  Or it can be a time of stress, debt, and the frenzied pursuit of more.   You get to choose. The advantages of buying less 2022 has been a Buy Nothing Year for me.  I realized that I had enough – more than enough, actually, because I still decluttered a few things.   Our culture tells us the opposite.  The drumbeat of messages saying we need something more than what we already have is relentless .  And that skews our vision, making it harder to see how blessed we really are.  When you're schooled to think that you're lacking, it becomes difficult to appreciate much of anything. It's been refreshing for me to stick with buying what we need.  I'll admit to being tempted now and then by cute displays and clever marketing, but my "rules" helped me remember that I didn't want to bring anything into my home that I didn't truly need.  I like my home to be fresh and attract...

Christmas is a season for joy and connection.  But what happens when the lights and bustle make you feel sad and lonely – excluded from the joy and connections that others are making? Maybe you're at home wondering, "Where are my party invitations?  Why does everyone else have someone to decorate the tree or make cookies with?  Why don't I have a hand to hold?" We're all in this together. That ache – that wish for connection – is what makes you exactly like everyone else.  All of us want to connect, even the introverts among us, even the curmudgeons.  (Just imagine how lonely Scrooge was, sipping gruel in his cold dark house on Christmas Eve.)  And all of us want to be happy, sometimes to the point that we refuse to feel sad, even when it makes sense. If you've recently lost your job, are going through a breakup, have been ill, or are simply feeling overwhelmed by the problems and complexities of the modern world, sorrow is actually a sane response. ...

I'm not rich.  You probably aren't either.  But did you know that the vast majority of millionaires don't think they're rich?  Studies show that only 13% of affluent Americans classify themselves as wealthy. Apparently, you're only as rich as you feel , and for many people, having any sort of financial constraint indicates that they don't have enough.  There's also that tendency we all share to compare our assets with what others have, and that makes most of us feel that we're lacking. So the rich are different.  They have more assets, but they may feel less secure and more discontented . A rich mindset Maybe we should aspire to be rich regardless of how much money we have.  As long as we're above the level of poverty, we can have a life that is full and valuable no matter how much cash we have to spend or invest. More of us need to measure happiness by something other than the number of our possessions.  It's actually the person who craves mo...

Plastic is everywhere. The world is producing 380 million tons of plastic every year, and 50% of that is for single-use purposes – useful for a minute, part of the environment for centuries . Plastic is valuable in medical supplies (including my eyeglasses!), auto parts, and machinery.  But it's also woven into our clothing, bedding, rugs, and furniture.  It's ubiquitous in toys, stuffed animals, disposable diapers, and feminine care.  We eat off it, drink from it, wrap food in it, and give it to our babies to chew on. I hope this bothers you as much as it does me.  But what are we doing about it? Isn't zero waste just too hard? For some people, the term "zero waste" is as scary as "minimalist."  Just as some think that minimalists get rid of almost everything they own, live in a white room with a mattress on the floor and a 10-item wardrobe, and shun all books, pictures, hobbies, and comfort , others believe a zero waste lifestyle is limiting, labor-in...

It's a common feature in magazines and on websites:  The Holiday Gift List.  Usually filled with over-priced items that no one really needs, I've always found these suggestions pretty useless.  It's just another form of advertising, as far as I'm concerned.  And who wants to add to the total of unwanted gifts received every holiday season? Better choices However, I recently found some better recommendations for the holiday, and I want to share them with you.  They come from the World Vision gift catalog.   World Vision  is a global Christian humanitarian organization that has been partnering with children, families, and communities ( of any faith or none ) for over 70 years.  Their programs include health, education, hunger and water issues, disaster relief, child protection, gender equality, and more. Each of these gifts equips children and families to change their own lives for a better future.  They're useful, provide decent jobs, and...