Don't Wait to Downsize
Maybe you're like me, and you've helped a newly-widowed parent pack up and sell their home. You've spent days (maybe even weeks) going through drawers and closets and boxes full of stuff, deciding what to do with old books, papers, paintings, furniture, towels, knickknacks, DVDs (or even VHS tapes), dishes, mementos, small appliances, tools, and more. You've had to decide what to give away, what to sell, what to throw away, and what to remove to a new dwelling that is half or a quarter of the size of the home they're leaving. And you've had to do all of this while your grieving parent turned their focus from their lost spouse to the often dusty and unused possessions they're losing. Instead of using their time and energy to begin to recover and move on to what is left of their own life, they're worrying about the loss of their belongings. My mother said she felt like she was losing everything . And then a few years later, when that parent dies, you go...