Maximum Gratitude, Minimal Stuff

A friend sent me a chicken soup recipe that calls for 16 ingredients.   Sixteen.   Including ditalini pasta, whatever that is.  (Okay, I Googled it.  It's the pasta I've seen in macaroni salads.) I have a small kitchen, which means I don't store ten shapes of pasta.  I don't store six kinds of flour.  I don't keep 25 herbs and spices, since I'd probably use the same eight or nine all the time while the others just got stale.   I don't want to shop for a bunch of ingredients, and I don't want to fool with washing, prepping, and measuring all of them. The food you eat can be either the safest and most powerful form of medicine, or the slowest form of poison. Ann Wigmore Simple food is natural ingredients our bodies recognize. Michael Pollan, author of Food Rules: An Eater's Manual ,* suggests that we shouldn't eat anything our great-grandmothers wouldn't recognize as food.  Well, my great-grandmother would have recognized fried frog legs...

Does the kitchen you've created support the healthy body you want to have?  Is the "heart of the home" a place that nurtures you and your intentions?   Small daily choices lead to a cluttered or an uncluttered home, just as they lead to a thriving, active body or its opposite.  It's hard to change, but we really can choose freedom and vitality! Since better eating habits are hampered by a cluttered kitchen, let's start there. 5 steps to a clutter-free kitchen 1.  Work with the space you have. Many of us think our kitchens are too small.  But more space won't solve a clutter problem.  In fact, when we have more space, we tend to fill it with more stuff.  Rather than searching for the perfect storage hack that will let you cram more in, try to accept the boundaries as a reality check.  The kitchen you have is what you have!  Not accepting limitations leads to dissatisfaction and stress as we try to have it all. 2.  Clear the counters...

If your house is out of control, it's possible your eating habits are too. Clutter guru Peter Walsh wrote  Lose the Clutter, Lose the Weight * because so many of his clients struggled with obesity.  "What you weigh isn't just about calorie counting or doing stomach crunches," he writes.  "What you weigh is about how you live." *  This blog is reader-supported.  If you buy through my links, I may earn a small commission. Research  shows that women eat more sweets and fatty foods when under stress from work or other responsibilities.  And guess what?  A cluttered, messy kitchen caused women to eat  almost three times as many sweets  than a less chaotic kitchen. There's a clear link between clutter and obesity. Clutter is exhausting and it drains your energy, which can make you feel hopeless and apathetic about everything, including exercise or a healthy diet.  Researchers at UCLA found that women who live in cluttered homes have elev...

I spend a fair amount of time on this blog pointing out differences between minimalists and the majority of people in our consumerist society.  Sometimes the easiest way to understand something new is to contrast it with something familiar. But minimalists and materialists  have a lot in common .  We're generally seeking the same things: happiness fulfillment freedom a good life It's just that our philosophies and methods for getting there are different. The difference is in where we look. A minimalist finds comfort and contentment in the simplicity, clarity, and order of her home, finances, schedule, relationships, mind, and spirit.  In contrast, a materialist finds comfort in the quantity and perceived desirability of her possessions, job, contacts, and life events. And that's not inherently bad, although I think it's limiting .  Fulfillment in that way requires a certain amount of wealth, a constant search for more and better, and quite a bit of waste....

Does the home you've created support the life you want to live? No?  Then tell me where you would rather be.  At the beach?  In a ski cabin near Lake Tahoe?  In Paris? Perhaps a trip to Tuscany is part of your dream.  So while you're in your current home, you're longing for Tuscany.  If you travel there and then come home to what you think of as your boring life in your boring house, you'll be disappointed.  Your wonderful dream trip will have made you discontented with your daily life . That's a sad state of affairs, because vacation trips, as terrific as they are, last for a week or two.  You live in your current home all the rest of the time.  Do you want to be discontented all the time?  Continually longing for something you don't have?  Fantasizing your real life away? No, no, no.  That's no way to live. How to live in your dream home now You can pay off all your debts, research jobs and housing, and make a plan to move...

Does the home you've created support the life you want to live? You don't need to add on a master suite or put in a swimming pool to make your home more supportive of the lifestyle you want.  Instead, figure out what bothers you, and use your creativity to improve it. 6 common areas of complaint and how to fix them 1.  The entrance hall Does your entrance hall depress you with its constant disorder?  The front hall plays a key role in the feelings you have about your home, so make it attractive and functional. Paint the door a color you love.  If your doormat has seen better days, replace it. Lighten the space with a mirror.  A narrow table or waist-level shelf can hold a tray for keys or outgoing mail, as well as a favorite plant or vase of flowers.  Place a small bench or stool underneath which can be pulled out when you need to deal with your shoes.  Remove all other furniture. Declutter extraneous outerwear, and make sure the front closet is clu...

Does the home you've created support the life you want to live? You don't need to remodel the bathroom, install quartz countertops, or buy new furniture.  Instead, figure out which details have the most impact on your daily life and approach them like a minimalist. 6 areas for home improvement   1.  What do you use as soon as you awake every morning? These items need to be accessible, whether this means having a place for your eyeglasses or your medications, your favorite spiritual book, or your journal and a pen.  If you don't have a drawer to store these in your bedside table, place them in a shallow basket that can slide under the bed (now that you don't have a bunch of clutter under it). 2.  What do you use to get ready for the day? The bathroom needs to be clean and ready to go.  You need enough hooks on the wall so towels can be hung to dry rather than dropped on the floor. Keep counter tops and tub ledges clear so the space is usable and eas...

It's normal for stuff to flow into our homes. For example, today I came home with a large bag of new clothes – some for my husband and some for me.  I got a package from Amazon containing a couple of new books.  There was a lot of mail in the box.  I need to go grocery shopping, and Jon wants to buy supplies for a painting project at his parents' house. This inflow is normal, so if we want to maintain our comfortably uncluttered state, we're going to have to re-declutter. Our rooms shape our thoughts... our moods.  By improving the state of our surroundings, we can improve our state of mind....  It's clear that for most people, outer order does indeed contribute to inner calm. Gretchen Rubin  Positive vibes As you declutter one corner, one closet, or one room at a time, and keep it that way, you'll notice that the clutter-free areas of your home make you happy.  Here are some of the factors contributing to that good feeling. You save time, energy...

Imagine your dream home. Walk up to the front door.  Open it, step inside, and look around.  What do you see? Maybe you picture one of those HGTV makeovers.  The "after" reveals are beautiful, but  notice what's missing :  no piles of magazines on the coffee table, no unfinished quilting projects taking over the guest room since last November, no unmade beds, no toys scattered dangerously over the floor.  The refrigerator door is clear of magnets and the dining table is set for a beautiful meal, not covered with a backpack, keys, sunglasses, a jar of peanut butter, cat toys, and the TV remote. Why do we love those HGTV reveals? What makes those rooms beautiful?  It's the lack of clutter, the soothing colors and comfortable design, and the sense that they're ready and open for life to take place.  They don't have piles of mail, laundry, dirty dishes, unfinished repairs, or stuff that needs to be cleared away before you can use a counter or sit on ...